My Favorite Tradition
*Writers note—I apologize for the late post, but as you read you will understand*
Last night my pledge class decided to paint the senior bench. A task that may sound minute, but in actuality it has continued the formation of the bond between our new group of friends. But the story truly began on Friday evening.
Living in a fraternity has its advantages, but there are some major disadvantages as well. As freshman, the entire class is required to sleep in one room, called the cold dorm. This is a great bonding experience, and we learn the true meaning of sharing. Sharing space, food, drinks, and the rhinovirus, to name a few.
Long story short, I caught it, and was feeling miserable Thursday night and Friday morning. My friend who is staying at another fraternity said it perfectly when he described the feeling as being a cesspool of sickness and disease. That is exactly how I felt. Fortunately, one of my professors had come down with the same illness, and canceled class that day.
Overjoyed, I took a much needed rest. That night, some friends at the fraternity wanted to go camping, and at that point I was feeling too sick to go. After resting, I decided to tough it out, and go with my friends. We had a great time. A few games of Ultimate Frisbee, grilling burgers and hot dogs, and a night sitting around a campfire getting to know each other outside the realm of the fraternity was a perfect bonding experience.
We drove back Saturday morning, finished our homework, and relaxed. A few of us watched Quentin Tarantino's classic Pulp Fiction. The movie was almost three hours long, and we did not start it until after eleven. After camping the night before, we all were exhausted, and decided to go to bed.
I slept in almost until noon, a new ability I have found in college. My English paper was due the next day, so I went to finish it. Several hours later, I finished just in time to hear that tonight was the night we were going to paint the senior bench.
I was excited. Painting the senior bench has been a tradition for generations. The traditions is that each fraternity on campus paints the bench in their house colors. My friends and I went to pick up the paint, while my other classmates guarded the bench, and to make sure that no other fraternity would be painting that night.
The rule is that you must paint the bench at night, and the painters have to keep watch to ensure others won't destroy what you made.
Night was falling, and we had returned with the paint. My friend drove the supplies over to the bench, and we unloaded his car. I let the more artistic students design the bench, because I am useless when it comes to decorating. They decided on the design you see here in the pictures. Our class began painting at 9:30 at night. At 5:30 in the morning, the bench was finished.
I never laughed as hard as I did when we were painting. My class has such a diverse background, yet we all get along perfectly. This was a great bonding experience, and I will remember this night for the rest of my life.
As I am writing this blog, the sun has risen over the horizon. My pledge brothers have gone to wash up for class, and maybe finish a little homework or catch a few precious hours of sleep. The peace this morning is inspiring. The only noise was coming form the birds in the arboretum.
I have never felt more secure in my choice of a college as I reflect on what I have done thus far, and what I will do in the next four years.
Stay tuned for the next installment. And remember feel free to email me at jrmartin13@wabash.edu. Thanks again.


Comments
Jim,
Thank you for this post. It brings back fond memories. It is also what every prospective student needs to read.
Posted by: Robert Bloss | September 23, 2009 03:16 PM